Friendly reminder that anti-cheating is pro-slut shaming (◕‿◕✿)
How the fuck is me not wanting my SO or myself to fuck other people while we’re committed to eachother slut shaming. Enlighten me please.
Slut shaming is shaming someone for being sexually active while NOT being in a committed, exclusive relationship.
Going behind a partner’s back after you’ve promised to be exclusive is LYING TO SOMEONE YOU SHOULD BE HONEST TO and has nothing to do with slut-shaming.
There are such things as open relationships, where both (or more) partners mutually agree to allow the other to actively seek out sexual relations with other people but they still stay together romantically and sexually.
The difference between an open relationship and cheating is the breach of trust. An open relationship means there are no secrets. Cheating means lies.
Cheating is not acceptable. It is not good. It is betrayal. And if you are not satisfied with the relationship you entered of your own free will, then end it and save everyone the trouble.
(Source: , via lilyginnyblack)